More Than a Groceries Trip
Learning to look closer and give back
By Aariv Hase
October 2025
Learning to look closer and give back
By Aariv Hase
October 2025
Usually, going to the grocery store with my mom is pretty ordinary. We get the same things every week, milk, bread, fruits, and sometimes I get to pick a treat. But yesterday, the trip was different. I learned something that wasn't on our shopping list.
When we finished shopping and walked out the doors, it was sunny outside. I noticed a bench near the water fountain in front of the store. Sitting there was a mother with her two children, a girl who looked a bit younger than me, and a little boy.
I stopped walking because they looked very different from the people getting in and out of the store. They didn’t have any grocery bags. Their clothes looked old, and they just looked really, really tired. The little boy was crying a little bit, and the mom looked like she didn't know what to do. They looked like they were hungry. I know how grumpy I get when I miss a snack.
I looked down at the bag in my hand. My mom had just bought a big bunch of bananas, and I was holding a bag of cookies I got for being good. Then I looked back at the family on the bench.
I looked up at my mom. I didn't even have to say anything. She just smiled at me and nodded her head. My heart was beating kind of fast, but I walked over to the bench.
"Excuse me," I said. The mom looked up, surprised. I held out the bunch of yellow bananas and the bag of cookies. "Would you like some snacks?"
The mom’s eyes got shiny, like she might cry, but she smiled a very big, warm smile. "Oh, thank you so much," she said. Her voice was soft. The little kids’ eyes lit up when they saw the food.
As I walked back to my mom, I looked over my shoulder. I saw the mother break off a banana, but instead of eating it herself, she gave the biggest ones to her two kids first. Even though she looked hungry too, she made sure they were okay before she took a bite.
On the car ride home, my mom explained to me that not every family is lucky like ours. Some people have a really hard time getting enough money just for basic food. That made me feel sad, but it also made me understand something big. That mother on the bench showed me what real love is because she put her children’s needs way before her own.
That day, I learned that kindness is the most important thing you can have. It is not just about being polite. It is about noticing when someone else is hurting or hungry and doing something about it. It felt really good to help them, even just a little bit. From now on, I am going to be on the lookout for ways to help those around me. Whenever I see families who are having a hard time, I will try my best to help with whatever I can share.